They're a lot more suspicious of outside forces and diligent when protecting the general peace. While you were understandably disoriented at the time, your public aggression is the type of situation they strive to prevent.

[Amelia starts on whatever dishes are left in the sink while continuing her explanation over the sound of running water.]

You would be considered a dangerous outlier. A number of things could have happened if you hadn't met me first. As I've implied before, they know it's easier to let me do things my way.

Understand that they aren't a monolith, however. The reason they exist is to protect each other from others and themselves.